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Charlotte Mason on the Importance of Atmosphere
Breathing Life into Education

“A child draws inspiration from the casual life around him.” — Charlotte Mason, Parents and Children

 

Charlotte Mason’s philosophy of education is deeply rooted in the idea that children are not merely vessels to be filled, but persons to be nourished by the very air they breathe, the atmosphere of their homes and schools. In her view, education is not confined to textbooks or lesson plans; it is the subtle, pervasive influence of the environment, the tone, the relationships, the unspoken values, that shapes a child’s character and affections.

 

Atmosphere as the Breath of Life

 

Mason writes that the child “breathes” the atmosphere around them, absorbing ideas not through direct instruction but through the lived experience of daily life. This atmosphere is not something artificially constructed; rather, it emanates naturally from the parents and teachers, from their tone of voice, their habits, their reverence for truth and beauty. It is in this environment that the child develops what Mason calls an “appetency,” a deep, often unconscious longing for what is good, true, and beautiful.1

 

This is a sobering thought for educators and parents alike. We are always teaching, even when we are not speaking. Our presence, our demeanor, our way of being, these are the silent lessons that shape a child’s soul.

 

How Atmosphere Shapes Us

 

Mason’s insight is that atmosphere is not a tool to be wielded, but a reality to be lived. It is not something we “use” to influence children; it is something we are. When we live with integrity, gentleness, and joy, we create a space where children can grow in freedom and confidence. But when we are anxious, controlling, or inconsistent, we create an atmosphere of fear or confusion.

 

In schools, this difference is palpable. A classroom where the teacher is calm, respectful, and genuinely interested in the students creates a sense of safety and curiosity. In contrast, a classroom dominated by stress, micromanagement, or emotional volatility stifles initiative and joy.

 

The Danger of Manipulative Influence

 

Mason warns against the temptation to use atmosphere as a means of control. She critiques the “goody-goody” literature of her time (and ours) that encouraged adults to consciously influence children through their personality or charm. This, she argues, leads to dependency rather than growth. A child who idolizes a teacher may fail to develop their own convictions and become a “parasitic plant,” always clinging to someone stronger.2

 

The true educator does not seek to impress or dominate, but to step back and allow the child to grow. This requires humility and trust, a willingness to let the child wrestle, question, and discover.

 

The “Overmuch” Teacher

 

We’ve all seen the teacher who is “overmuch” with her students, constantly explaining, correcting, hovering. While well-intentioned, this over-involvement can smother a child’s initiative. Children need space to think, to try, to fail, and to try again. The best teachers know when to step in and when to step back. They trust the process of growth and resist the urge to control every outcome.

 

Atmosphere Alone Is Not Enough

 

Mason is clear: atmosphere is essential, but it is not sufficient. “Though we cannot live without air, neither can we live upon air.” A child raised on atmosphere alone, without ideas, without effort, without challenge, becomes passive, bored, and dependent on external stimulation. This, Mason argues, is why modern culture craves spectacle. We have lost the habit of attention, the joy of discovery, the discipline of thought.3

 

Spectacle vs. Life-Giving Atmosphere

 

Many schools today rely on spectacle, flashy events, elaborate productions, constant entertainment, to keep students engaged. But Mason sees this as a symptom of educational malnourishment. True education does not dazzle; it nourishes. It awakens curiosity, fosters wonder, and cultivates habits of attention and reflection.

 

A life-giving atmosphere is not loud or showy. It is quiet, steady, and rich with meaning. It invites the child to engage with the world, not as a passive consumer, but as an active participant in the great conversation of humanity.

 

Final Thoughts

 

Charlotte Mason’s vision of atmosphere challenges us to examine not just what we teach, but how we live. Are we creating spaces where children can breathe deeply of truth, beauty, and goodness? Are we modeling the kind of life we hope they will one day live?

 

Atmosphere is not a strategy. It is a way of being. And in the end, it is the air our children breathe.

1 Charlotte Mason, Parents and Children

2 Charlotte Mason, School Education

3 Charlotte Mason, Philosophy of Education

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Charlotte Mason and the Art of Growing Together https://amblesideschools.org/charlotte-mason-and-the-art-of-growing-together/ Fri, 19 Sep 2025 16:39:45 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2661 Charlotte Mason’s philosophy reminds us that education is not one-sided; as students grow in knowledge and character, teachers are called to grow alongside them.

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Charlotte Mason and the Art of Growing Together

Do not let the children pass a day without distinct efforts, intellectual, moral1, volitional2; let them brace themselves to understand; let them compel themselves to do and to bear; and let them do right at the sacrifice of ease and pleasure: and this for many higher reasons, but, in the first and lowest place, that the mere physical organ of mind and will may grow vigorous with work.3

 

Charlotte Mason suggests that the educator’s work consists of a triad of distinct preparations: intellectual – cognition, the ability of the child to comprehend the varied courses of understanding such as, Science and Geography, Citizenship and Mathematics; moral — proper behavior and respect with others, family, friends, and classmates, and; volitional, the exercise of one’s will founded upon what is true, good, and lovely, not founded upon feeling alone ‘I want and I like.”

 

Mason continues to instruct using the distinction between ‘I want’ and ‘I will’ through turning one’s thoughts from that which we desire but do not will. I had a student who was quite anxious concerning a certain subject. He would downshift and display frustration in both body and spirit. Prior to class, I told him to get a drink of water at the fountain. He did so and upon reentering the class, saw his classmates ready for class and did likewise. Creating a new neural network4 allowed him to approach the class without anxiousness.

 

Teachers are keen and conscientious to engage all students as active participants in oral reading and discussions throughout all the disciplines of study. Students do not wave their hands wildly to be called upon. Instead, they are instructed to engage when a classmate is finished talking or when he/she is called upon by the teacher. This community of reciprocity gives each student engagement regardless of personality or ability.

 

Lastly, a word concerning proper behavior. Teachers instruct students in ways of relating, not with a list of rules but with proper respect for oneself, others, and one’s work. When a teacher sees behavior which is amiss, she redirects the class or the individual student. For example, lining up for music, art, chapel, play etc. some students develop a hierarchy of being first, last, or next to a particular classmate. The teacher explains that we are all going to the same place and no need to seek to be in line next to a particular person or away from another person. This is unkind and rude. The teacher takes these opportunities to instruct students to be kind and thoughtful of others.

 

Growth is what is intended for each of us for the entirety of our lives. This growth is characterized by what it fully means to be a person.

 

Maryellen St. Cyr

Founder, Director of Curriculum

Ambleside Schools International

1 Concerning conduct or moral principles one’s disposition

2 The act of masking a definite choice, I will.

3 Charlotte Mason, Home Education, 22.

4 Provide a copy of the page for a weak reader to practice at home 2-3 times and ready oneself for the next day’s reading. The teacher circles the words which can be problematic and the student practices these words and the reading with a parent.

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A Lifelong Student of Charlotte Mason https://amblesideschools.org/a-lifelong-student-of-charlotte-mason/ Fri, 27 Jun 2025 13:29:58 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2574 You might say that Matt Wilcox is a lifelong student of Charlotte Mason — living out her ideas at home, at school, and in his work.

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A Lifelong Student of Charlotte Mason

You might say that Matt Wilcox has been a student of Charlotte Mason all his life.   

 

Homeschooled in his earliest years according to Charlotte Mason’s philosophy; educated at an Ambleside school from 2nd through 8th grade; brought up by a mother and father who served as Ambleside Principal and School Chaplain, respectively; and now teaching 9th grade in an Ambleside classroom — Charlotte Mason is part of Matt’s DNA.  

 

Matt remembers, “My mom [Ginnie Wilcox] was an avid student of Charlotte Mason, so much so that whenever she was demoralized by the challenges of life raising five children, my dad would say, ‘Go read Charlotte Mason.’ And this rejuvenated her.”  

 

For Matt, the most enduring fruit of this immersion in Mason’s worldview was the belief in his own innate value as a person. He remembers having this conviction even as a child. Because the discussions in his Ambleside classrooms were always student-driven, Matt internalized the idea — “They want to hear my thoughts, therefore my ideas must be valuable, therefore I must be valuable.” 

 

 “I had an immense respect for people,” Matt declares. “When something impinged on the respect of persons, I noticed and saw it as a significant problem.”   

 

After graduating from Ambleside School in McLean, Matt entered a traditional Christian high school. In his classes, he perceived that his thoughts and ideas were not valued. This was a very different atmosphere from that in which he had been brought up.  

 

“I got the message that what mattered most was what the teacher thought about the literature, history, or ethics being studied,” he said. “Lack of interest in student thought made me angry. I perceived the expectation to be, ‘Listen and regurgitate. Don’t think. Listen and memorize.’ There was little freedom to engage with the ideas that authors presented.”  

 

While Matt recognized that his teachers had only good intentions, even as a ninth grader, he found this treatment demeaning. And he admits he didn’t respond well at first. In due time, he learned to play the game, as was expected of him. He also became more keenly aware of the gift he had been given in an Ambleside education. 

 

Matt’s decision to become a teacher was a “slow burn,” as he named it.  

 

Having inherited his parents’ passion for education, while in college, he pondered all his parents had shared about teaching and leading an Ambleside community. Still, his only plan after graduating from George Mason University was to hike the Pacific Crest Trail, starting in Mexico and ending in Canada. He would figure out the rest of his life from there.  

 

Providentially, mid-hike, Maryellen St. Cyr emailed him about an open teaching role at an Ambleside school. She wrote, “You can learn how to ski. And I hear there’s some attractive single women on staff.”  

 

He decided to try it for a year.  

 

“Each year I asked myself, ‘Should I do this for one more year?’ And then after three or four years, it became clear that teaching is my calling.”   

 

Now that Matt is discipling students in his own classroom, he wants to impart to them love for a vast array of relationships with diverse persons and things. Mason says that one of the best indicators of intelligence is the number of things about which one is curious. That’s what he wants for his students.  

 

“In a utilitarian, secular view of education,” Matt explains, “the implicit assumption is that the purpose of education is essentially to make me of use for my career. Charlotte Mason would disagree with that. And I think Scripture disagrees. The purpose of education is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind and strength…   

 

“And that applies to all areas that He has created.”  

 

Matt is now in his eighth year of teaching in Ambleside schools. He shares his passion for a living education with his wife, Frances, a former Ambleside teacher whom Matt met during college when she joined the Ambleside McLean teaching staff. She was hired by Matt’s mom.  

 

“When I started teaching full-time at Ambleside, I would call Frances and pretend I was asking for teaching tips,” Matt admitted, laughing.  

 

After six years and “a couple of dates that weren’t dates,” he asked her out on a real date. It went well. They now have two young daughters, Mary and Virginia, and Matt considers this season one of the best of his life.  

 

“I think we have a tendency to yearn for the future … whatever it is, there’s always something. But I think when I’m retired, I’m going to be thinking back longingly on these moments. It’s a very sweet and special time right now.”  

 

About Matt Wilcox

 

Matt Wilcox studied Economics at George Mason University, where he received a Bachelor of Science, and he has since completed Ambleside Schools International’s Master Teacher Training Program. Matt was homeschooled using Charlotte Mason’s methods before entering an Ambleside school in Virginia from 2nd through 8th grade. His childhood memories include nature painting in the woods behind his home and reading and narrating Treasure Island in the living room. Those early years fostered a deep love of the outdoors, so after college, Matt worked as a backpacking guide in New York before hiking the Pacific Crest Trail with a friend. He’s been an Ambleside teacher since 2016 and loves the Ambleside mission that proclaims education is a life. 

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Reading and Growing https://amblesideschools.org/reading-and-growing/ Thu, 22 May 2025 18:32:12 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2539 George Washington’s hard-won pursuit of knowledge shows how reading shapes character and growth—just as Charlotte Mason believed it should.

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Reading and Growing

I conceive a knowledge of books

is the basis upon which other knowledge is to be built.1

 

America’s first president, George Washington, was not educated formally; his two older half-brothers received their education at Appleby School in England. George’s father planned to send him to England as well. His unexpected death, however, prevented George, now 11, from receiving the same education as his brothers.

 

Instead, George received his education by books and tutors.2 In addition to reading, writing, and basic legal forms, he studied geometry and trigonometry — preparing him for his first career as a surveyor. Toward the end of his schooling, George copied 110 Rules of Civility and Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation,3 which would shape his character and conduct for the rest of his life.  His formal education ended at fourteen.

 

Throughout his life, Washington was a voracious reader; he took notes, jotted down memoranda, created personal indices, underlined, and on rare occasions, wrote in the margins. He took the time to thoroughly investigate a topic, collecting information from a variety of sources and perspectives, before pursuing his own opinions and course.4

 

His pursuit of knowledge had been a hard-fought quest to overcome his educational deficit while simultaneously building his career. For him, reading was fundamentally an act of self-construction, a means of intellectual and moral improvement.5

 

Charlotte Mason understood keenly what Washington had learned from his studies:

 

If we are to read and grow thereby, we must read to know, that is, our

reading must be study—orderly, definite, purposeful. In this way, what

I have called the two stages of education, synthetic and analytic,

coalesce; the wide reading tends to discipline, and in the disciplinary or

analytic stage the mind of the student is well nourished by the continued

habit of wide reading.6

 

Maryellen St. Cyr

Co-Founder and Director of Curriculum

Ambleside Schools International

1 George Washington, 1771.

2 His library collection consists of more than 1,200 titles and nearly 900 pages of notes from his reading survive today.

3 Adapted by the 1595 work written by French Jesuit Priests.

4 Issac, Amanda, C., Take Note! George Washington the Reader, Mount Vernon Ladies’ Association, 213.

5 Ibid.,

6 Mason, Formation of Character, 382.

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As Old As Ambleside https://amblesideschools.org/as-old-as-ambleside/ Fri, 09 May 2025 16:27:43 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2532 Father and son reflect on their 25-year history at an Ambleside School.

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As Old As Ambleside: Father and Son Reflect on Their 25-Year History at an Ambleside School

A work-related move from Portland, Oregon in 2000 led Dave and Leslie White to enroll their youngest son, Paul, in the inaugural fifth-grade class of the first Ambleside School, which opened in Fredericksburg in the Fall of 2000. They became very active in the community and served on various Ambleside boards throughout the years.

 

After graduating, Paul went on to Wheaton College, moved to the Middle East for nonprofit work for two years, and now lives back in Fredericksburg where he sends his two children to the same Ambleside school he attended.

 

How did you find your way to Ambleside School of Fredericksburg?

 

Dave: In the spring of 2000 we had been living in Oregon for 12 years and began to plan to return to Texas for my work opportunity with Edward Jones. Leslie found that a new school was starting while looking for a great option for Paul, our youngest, who was entering fifth grade. Fortunately, she was introduced to a new school opening — Ambleside School of Fredericksburg!

 

Paul: I had only attended public schools in Oregon before the move, so I could immediately tell this was something different and new, and I recall being very excited for the school to start. Then when I moved back to Fredericksburg in 2015 I was asked to serve on the Ambleside Fredericksburg Board, which I did until my term expired in 2021. We then transitioned into the parent role, and have had our oldest son there since 2021.

 

What brought you back to Ambleside as a parent?

 

Paul: The way of looking at children as persons is really a fundamentally different viewpoint than what I see anywhere else. The careful consideration for what our children will learn is also instrumental in our being at Ambleside. But ultimately the short answer is that we see the joy our son has when he goes to school and the joy he has after the day is done, and we know we’re at the right place.

 

How has Charlotte Mason changed your family?

 

Dave: Her educational philosophy as understood and taught by Ambleside has been revealed in Paul’s continued love for learning and understanding of the world in which we live! It has given us a view of a system and philosophy that we have wished we could have experienced firsthand as students.

 

Can you share a story about its impact on your life?

 

Paul: When I went to work overseas I was expected to do many things, from practical tasks like managing the schedule to planning a major peace summit in Cyprus. I remember one of my British colleagues saying to me that she appreciated having me on the team because “you have the confidence that you can do anything, even if you aren’t trained in how to do it.” In reflecting over the years, I attribute that confidence to the ideas instilled in me at Ambleside — that I can do hard things and that through developing habits and strengthening weaknesses, any problem can be figured out and overcome.

 

What has been particularly meaningful for you as a parent watching your kids grow and develop into maturity?

 

Dave: I have always, in the simplest way, appreciated that Paul had a cohesive understanding of educational disciplines that are most often taught in a rather disjointed way. He could correlate history with the arts and literature of a specific time.

 

When your friends ask you about your kids’ school experience, how do you answer them?

 

Paul: The simplest answer to many friends is to give practical differences: we don’t have technology in the classrooms. That really resonates as many of our friends who don’t attend Ambleside attend a private school where every classroom has a smart board, and the children are expected to have personal technological devices as early as fourth grade. I often find myself telling people that intentionality is something they’ll find at Ambleside. There are no neutral actions when it comes to creating an atmosphere, so many friends are struck by the intentional way things are done at Ambleside because of that fact.

 

Tell us about your friendship with the St. Cyrs.

 

Dave: They are some of our dearest and most treasured friends! We have shared great times of sharing life and faith, along with some traveling together. We value the cherished times of sharing poetry, readings, and scripture together.

 

Paul: The St. Cyrs have been good friends to our family since that first year here. Maryellen was a sometimes intimidating figure as the Head of School those first years, and we’ve laughed since then about my childhood perceptions of her during that time. What has struck me the most on reflection is that what was intimidating was that you couldn’t “skate by” under the radar at Ambleside, and it was intimidating to have the Head of the School be actively and actually interested in me and my life. I had never experienced that type of atmosphere before, where you were not just one of many but were seen and appreciated as a unique individual.

 

Bill quickly became a mentor to me and poured much wisdom and advice into my life for which I’m very grateful. To this day, when they come to Fredericksburg we try to get together, and he asks me wonderful, caring, and pointed questions about my life and relationships so that it doesn’t feel as though it has been a year since our last conversation. Some of the very best advice I’ve ever received came from Bill.

 

Dave White

Ambleside Parent & Grandparent

 

Paul White

Ambleside Alumnus & Parent

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Home is the First Classroom: Parent-Teacher Partnership https://amblesideschools.org/home-is-the-first-classroom-parent-teacher-partnership/ Fri, 25 Apr 2025 19:56:03 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2467 Parents and teachers work together in building the child's character, both at home and in the classroom. Rather than shying away from weakness, they can address it together.

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Home is the First Classroom
Parent-Teacher Partnership

“Parents are the primary educators of their children.”

 

Jill Romine, Principal at Ambleside in Ocala, Florida, references this Charlotte Mason teaching as one of the cornerstones of the Ambleside educational philosophy: the strength in the parent-teacher partnership.

 

The definition of “education” becomes diluted if we limit it to the mere presentation of facts and data points from a teacher in a classroom. Ambleside embraces a definition that also encompasses the proper cultivation of habits, relationships, and disciplines that lead to a fuller life. Parents who want their children to be discipled need teachers to care about how their children handle struggle, how they approach work, and how their children relate to God, themselves, and others.

 

“When there’s a strong partnership between a teacher and parents, there’s trust,” Romine says. “That teacher knows how to look above and beyond just a set of skills that need to be mastered, but rather from a character perspective.”

 

Parents and teachers work together in building that character, both at home and in the classroom. Rather than shying away from weakness, they can address it together. Romine lays out what that can look like in practice.

 

What Parents Can Do to Support Their Children’s Growth

 

Model Healthy Authority

Authority is a good and healthy structure. We all ultimately live under God’s authority and sit under other leadership in one way or another throughout our lives. Parents who understand and demonstrate their authority in the home prepare their children to accept their teacher’s authority in the classroom. Having a healthy relationship with authority is important, as is being able to rest in it peacefully.

 

Build Habits at Home

Habits shape character. Parents can reinforce habits of attention and orderliness by encouraging routines at home — ensuring homework is completed, helping children tidy up after meals, or setting consistent bedtimes. A classroom full of children who are trained in these habits consistently at school and at home is a classroom marked by peace and order, which creates a conducive atmosphere for learning and engagement.

 

Engage in Meaningful Conversations

Rather than focusing solely on to-do lists, we encourage parents to talk with their children about big ideas. Discussing books, history, or moral dilemmas helps children mature, make connections, and think for themselves. “Since the mind feeds on ideas, relating over the good, true, and beautiful as a family is one of the most important things we can do at home,” says Romine.

 

Set Boundaries on Screens

Establish firm limits around screen time. Modeling a healthy relationship with technology and setting parameters around its use in the home communicates that being present with one another matters.

 

Volunteer and Be Present

Parents who volunteer for school activities, like field studies or classroom Handwork sessions, get a close-up look at what their children are capable of. Not only does this support the school community, but it also provides parents with insight into the habits and culture of the classroom, which they can mirror at home.

 

Encourage Perseverance

Ambleside embraces the idea that struggle and delight go hand in hand. Parents can encourage their children to persist through challenges, from a difficult math problem to learning to crochet. Romine notes, “Real growth happens when we’re outside our comfort zone. Children need to experience the satisfaction of working through something hard and succeeding.”

 

What Parents Should Avoid

 

Rescuing Children from Struggles

One of the most detrimental habits parents can develop is stepping in to relieve their child’s discomfort too quickly. This robs children of the opportunity to build resilience and discover their own capabilities. When parents rescue children from every struggle, it sends the message that they can’t handle challenges, which undermines their confidence.

 

Sowing Limiting Ideas

Casual comments like, “It’s no wonder you struggle with this — I was never a math person,” can have a lasting negative effect on a child’s mindset. Such statements can lead children to internalize limitations that might not exist. Instead, parents should convey that learning is a journey and that effort, not innate ability, determines growth.

 

Focusing on Performance Over Growth

A parent’s personal anxiety around performance often filters down to children, creating a pressure-filled atmosphere that detracts from a love of learning. Ambleside aims to cultivate curiosity and understanding, not competition. Parents should avoid comparing their children to others and instead celebrate personal growth and effort.

 

A Beautiful Partnership 

“When it’s really working beautifully is when a parent and a teacher are both laboring together, and there’s a sense of being for one another, with ultimately the end goal being the success of the students. We want the fullest life possible for your child.”

 

Jill Romine

Principal

Ambleside School of Ocala

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It’s Always Storytime https://amblesideschools.org/its-always-storytime/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 15:04:38 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2424 Spending time in great stories creates appreciation and hunger for things outside our world, expanding it. Stories make our world bigger.

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It's Always Storytime
The Secret Garden of Education

It’s afternoon recess, and a game of tag is underway at RiverTree School in a northwest suburb of Minneapolis. As two students race across the playground, the chased yells a command over his shoulder to his pursuer, “I love thee not, therefore pursue me not!”

 

In a separate corner of the yard on another day, Robin Hood’s merry men are engaged in a heated stick-sword fight with an enemy just outside Sherwood Forest, which is cleverly disguised as a regular old stand of oak trees on this day.

 

By a generous act of diplomacy, the merry men spare his life and issue an invitation to join their band, which he readily accepts.

 

After reading a chapter in Benjamin West and His Cat Grimalkin during read-aloud time, one student goes home determined to find out if cat’s hair really does make a good paintbrush. The school’s co-founder Marybeth Nelson confirms that it does, according to her own children’s similar experiment and her dear cat’s unwavering conviction to never let it happen again.

 

“It’s a sign of a good book if the children go outside and start acting it out in play,” Marybeth says. “We just give them instruction on how to play with sticks without hurting each other.”

 

Spending time in great stories creates appreciation and hunger for things outside our world, expanding it. Stories make our world bigger.

 

This is readily seen in the play of young children, but the same progression is happening in older students as well. They’re inspired toward the care of women and children when reading about passenger rescue attempts during the sinking of the Titanic. The dystopian societies presented in Huxley’s Brave New World and Rand’s Anthem help students appreciate independence and free thought in a new way altogether.

 

Throughout their Ambleside education, students encounter ideas presented through story in each living book. As they put themselves into the stories, they’re engaging with the ideas held within — and those ideas stay with them.

 

“We all think in stories. It’s how we interact with each other,” Nelson explains. “Stories are how we connect with people, and so I think that stories are also how we connect with ideas. They are the backbone of what we do.”

 

Stories Shape Ideas.

 

Of all the memorable characters in Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Collins is one of the most distinct because of the extremity of his social awkwardness.

 

At her school one afternoon, Nelson overheard a classroom discussing this clergyman’s clumsy compliment of the boiled potatoes at the Bennet dinner table. Eventually, the teacher called on a student whom she had noticed being very quiet throughout.

 

This student shared, in an unexpected moment of vulnerability, that she had never thought of Mr. Collins as being awkward because she could relate to him. “I don’t know what to talk about when I’m at a dinner party or when I’m with new people,” she confessed. “I know I often say the wrong thing or maybe I just make a little comment about the food because I know it’s something safe to talk about. And so he didn’t strike me as so awkward. I could understand where he was coming from.”

 

Nelson said you could tell from her voice that there was a larger question being presented: “Am I also awkward, then?” In the tension of the moment, she waited to see how the other students would respond.

 

But that student’s vulnerability made everybody else enter into the same kind of honesty, admitting they hadn’t considered that they often do the same. The teacher was able to lead the discussion into how they could respond in a similar situation, and how they could show graciousness to a friend who maybe doesn’t know the right thing to do in that kind of setting.

 

“If I made a lesson plan about how to be a good dinner guest and how to make good conversation, that would be really flat,” says Marybeth. “But that story provides the scaffolding to have these interactions that end up being much more powerful.”

 

Stories Shape Relationships.

 

Nelson recalls a particular fifth-grade student who was a very determined individual. When this student landed in Nelson’s office after being escorted off the playground by her teacher, Nelson asked the girl what had happened, and the girl shared her experience.

Knowing the girl needed to calm down in order to be able to think about things in a new way, Nelson turned the conversation to story, asking questions about the book she knew the student was reading in her fifth-grade classroom.

 

“Who is your favorite sister in Little Women?” Marybeth asked the fifth grader.

 

“Mrs. Nelson,” the student answered immediately, “I identify with Jo so much.”

 

After talking further, Nelson asked, “So that’s interesting because Jo also struggled with her temper. Did she ever regret it?” And they talked about when Amy burned Jo’s novel and how angry Jo was. Then after Jo went through the process of almost losing Amy, the two girls reconciled.

 

The student confessed, “Some days I think that everybody just wants me to be like Beth, but I’m not like Beth.”

 

“You don’t need to be like Beth,” Marybeth replied. “Wouldn’t our world be kind of dull if everyone was Beth?” They talked about the other characters in the book, concluding that there’s a reason why there are so many different personalities in the fifth-grade class.

 

Stories Shape Character.

 

We probably read Shakespeare in the first place for his stories, afterward for his characters. . .  To become intimate with Shakespeare in this way is a great enrichment of mind and instruction of conscience. Then, by degrees, as we go on reading this world-teacher, lines of insight and beauty take possession of us, and unconsciously mold our judgments of men and things and of the great issues of life.

 

― Charlotte M. Mason

Marybeth Nelson

Co-Founder and Director of Curriculum

RiverTree School

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Instructing in the Beauty Sense https://amblesideschools.org/instructing-in-the-beauty-sense/ https://amblesideschools.org/instructing-in-the-beauty-sense/#respond Fri, 28 Mar 2025 20:17:19 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1271 Let’s consider together the Beauty Sense, a formative force rarely considered in its potent ability to shape the character of children. The Beautiful, together with the Good and the True, are servants to one another, each drawing to the others as it draws us to itself.

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Instructing in the Beauty Sense

Let’s consider together the Beauty Sense, a formative force rarely considered in its potent ability to shape the character of children. The Beautiful, together with the Good and the True, are servants to one another, each drawing to the others as it draws us to itself.

 

Charlotte Mason speaks of imagination with the trained eye and ear as central to the perception of beauty.

 

He must needs have Imagination with him to travel there, but still more must he have that companion of the nice ear and eye, who enabled him to recognize music and beauty in words and their arrangement. The aesthetic Sense, in truth, holds the key of this palace of delights. There are few joys in life greater and more constant than our joy in Beauty, though it is almost impossible to put into words what Beauty consists in; color, form, proportion, harmony – these are some of its elements.1

 

These elements of Beauty speak of perfection — completeness — and are often spoken of with Truth and Goodness, forming a triad.

 

They have been called “transcendental” on the ground that everything which is is in some measure or manner subject to denomination as true or false, good or evil, beautiful or ugly. But they have also been assigned to special spheres of being or subject matter — the true to thought and logic, the good to action and morals, the beautiful to enjoyment and aesthetics.2

 

Humans are created for and called to the transcendent, to climb over or move beyond, to excel, surpass, and surmount. And when this does not happen, something has gone wrong. Bill St. Cyr calls it a malformation. The malformed soul does not delight in the good, beautiful, and true, but rather in the biting, brutal, and base. As educators we must ask how we rightly form the hearts and minds of students of all ages.

 

At Ambleside, we hold as a first principle that Education is the “Science of Relations,” that our hearts and minds, our affections and desires are formed by the relational world which surrounds us, be it books and things, family and friends, social media and pop culture, or trends and technology. Many years ago, an Ambleside parent said to me, “We are the sum total of the books we read, the ideas we entertain, and the people we befriend.”

 

In the cultivation of the beauty sense, books hold the same primacy of place that do art and music. Mason said that in order to have a richly-stored imagination we must read much.3

 

Students read thousands of pages a year in Ambleside Schools, beginning with a thousand plus pages in kindergarten read mostly by the teacher and culminating with eight to nine thousand pages each year of high school. They read books described as living, books filled with beautiful, vivid language, creating scenes for imagination, ideas of life, the knowledge of God and man, conduct and duty, a storehouse of thought wherein we may find all the great ideas that have moved the world.

 

Given the right book, cultivating the sense of Beauty, Goodness, and Truth begins with:

 

Expectation and Attention — “Everyday moments of epiphany are bestowed on everyone. Our role is to simply pay attention.”4

 

When opening a living book, a revelation, a manifestation of a new idea or truth awaits the reader. This truth can take the form of a clear, conscious thought or a yearning of the heart. One must participate in a careful reading of the text, assimilating its language, and responding to its ideas. We read to know, to know both mind and heart, to know in Goodness, in Truth, and in Beauty.

 

At Ambleside, a student cannot help but give his/her attention. At any given time in any given subject, the student will be called upon to read, narrate, or discuss. Throughout the day, living readings in fiction and non-fiction, citizenship, geography, history, Scripture, and science are thoughtfully engaged. Students are not left listless or passive. Each is engaged.  Each experiences the reciprocity of giving and receiving insights from the author and from their classmates.

 

The manner by which a teacher cultivates the Beauty Sense is exemplified in an example from the 1845 autobiography, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass. In this passage, twelve-year-old Douglass responds to a passage from The Columbian Orator.

 

In the same book, I met with one of Sheridan’s mighty speeches on and in behalf of Catholic emancipation. These were choice documents to me. I read them over and over again with unabated interest. They gave tongue to interesting thoughts of my own soul, which had frequently flashed through my mind, and died away for want of utterance.  The moral which I gained from the dialogue was the power of truth over a conscience of even a slaveholder. What I got from Sheridan was a bold denunciation of slavery, and a powerful vindication of human rights. The reading of these documents enabled me to utter my thoughts, and to meet the arguments brought forward to sustain slavery; but while they relieved me of one difficulty, they brought on another even more painful than the one of which I was relieved. The more I read, the more I was led to abhor and detest my enslavers …

 

The idea as to how I might learn to write was suggested to me by being in Durgin and Bailey’s shipyard, and frequently seeing the ship carpenters, after hewing and getting a piece of timber ready for use, write on the timber the name of that part of the ship for which it was intended. When a piece of timber was intended for the larboard side, it would be marked thus — “L.”  When a piece was for the starboard side, it would be marked thus — “S.”… I soon learned the names of these letters, and for what they were intended when placed upon a piece of timber in the shipyard. I immediately commenced copying them, and in a short time was able to make the four letters named. After that, when I met with any boy who I knew could write, I would tell him I could write as well as he. The next word would be, “I don’t believe you. Let me see you try it.” I would then make the letters I was so fortunate as to learn and ask him to beat that. In this way I got a good many lessons in writing, which is quite possible I should have never gotten in any other way. During this time, my copybook was the board fence, brick wall, and pavement; my pen and ink was a lump of chalk. With these, I learned mainly how to write. I then commenced and continuing copying the Italics in Webster’s Spelling Book, until I could make them all without looking on the book…. Thus, after a long tedious effort for years, I finally succeeded in learning how to write.5

 

After a short introduction regarding The Columbian Orator and the careful reading and narrating of the text, the teacher provided questions concerning Douglass’ response to his plight. Note that not all these questions would necessarily be discussed:

 

  • Douglass is twelve during this time, and he is reading famous speeches. What effect does this have on his life? Why?
  • The collection of orations includes such authors as: Socrates, Cicero, Jesus, Milton, William Pitt, Benjamin Franklin, George Washington, and native American chiefs. How do these readings act as a force in Douglass’ life?
  • Wordsworth described the child as ‘father of the man.’ How did Douglass’ youth prepare him for manhood?
  • Speak about the gifts of reading and writing and their importance in school and in life.

What one reads matters. The Beauty Sense is cultivated by encountering and sharing the beautiful in the lives of literary characters such as Frederick Douglass, a slave, and his quest for freedom.

 

Douglass instructs the human spirit through his story. We learn from his pages and his artistry in bringing to life what was imagined and remembered in his heart and mind. This book, and books like it, are living through their characters and conflicts, romps in the natural world with fawn and friend, through the earnest defiance of injustice to the human spirit, to the intimacy of family and friendship, challenges of loss and loneliness, hardships and slavery. Each chapter reflects and cultivates the transcendent triad of Beauty, Goodness, and Truth.

1 Mason, Charlotte. Ourselves. Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989. 41.

2 The Great Ideas, A Syntopicon of Great Books of the Western World. Adler, Mortimer Ed. William Benton Pub.,1990.

3 Mason, Charlotte. Ourselves. Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989. 50.

4 Schleske, Martin. The Sound of Life’s Unspeakable Beauty. Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co., 2020. xiii.

5 Douglas, Frederick. Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass. Tribecca Books. 45, 47-48

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Begin At The Beginning https://amblesideschools.org/begin-at-the-beginning/ Fri, 14 Mar 2025 11:00:35 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2389 Faith in education is more than instruction—it's about shaping desire, intellect, and habits to form hearts that seek what is true, good, and beautiful.

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Begin At The Beginning
The Process of Spiritual Formation in a Living Education

“Only a disciple can make a disciple.” – A. W. Tozer

 

There are two common ways Christian schools have traditionally walked out discipleship with students: 1) by dispensing information about God to students in Bible classes, and 2) enforcing a set of standards for conduct, dress, and speech.

 

These are good and needed practices.

 

But Genesis 3 gives a clue as to the root of where the process of spiritual formation actually begins, and therefore, what we as educators and parents must understand and embrace.

 

“So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.” –Genesis 3:6 (ESV)

 

Desire

 

Eve desired to be wise, and the crafty serpent presented the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil as the means to become so. Her desire for becoming equal with God was birthed, and her will to attain that desire determined her next course of action.

 

Spiritual formation is rooted in desire. We pursue what we desire, and so we must pay careful attention to what we lift up as good and desirable when discipling students to become more Christlike. To start with behavior modification is to attempt to change the output, but the output, or behavior, actually finds its source in the desire.

 

In a living education, we are working to shape the desire and set a child’s affections toward God.

 

And so we are very intentionally making that which we should desire, desirable. We’re helping the child to desire what is good and right and beautiful and true. The goal that we have for each child is that they become more like their Lord, more like Jesus Christ Himself. Academics, then, falls under the larger umbrella of Christian formation.

 

Spiritual formation and academics are one; they aren’t separate things in an Ambleside education. Every piece of curriculum is carefully chosen accordingly.

 

In math, for instance, we’re not really concerned with what the child now knows. That will grow as their capacity for knowledge grows. But who is the child becoming? How can we use the subject of math to help the child become who they ought to be?

 

This doesn’t diminish the role of academics, but rather, elevates it. We have to have a definite goal in mind for what the child should be becoming. There should be a definite goal — not just what a child should be doing but who he or she IS.

 

Intellect

 

We start this process of becoming Christlike by informing the intellect. We cannot desire that which we do not in some sense understand. So the intellect is necessarily involved. But there is a necessary step beyond the giving of information, and that is the intentional setting of affections on what is good, true, and beautiful.

 

We go through the intellect, if you will, to get to the heart, which is the seat of the child’s emotions and desires and affections. Then we start to inform those desires and inform those affections which shape the heart. We get at that through the whole of the curriculum.

 

Once desire is established, then follows will and action, as it did with Eve.

 

Habits

 

The next step in spiritual formation, then, is habit formation, one of the pillars of a living education. Habits run along the lines of the desires that are already in place, but they strengthen those desires, confirming and solidifying them. With the youngest of children you can start to put habits in place to reinforce the desires that are being formed over time.

 

Habits act to reinforce and strengthen, but they are not a replacement for having love for Christ in the heart. Habits alone are not enough.

 

When we put beautiful things before a child, something within them responds to that beauty. God has created them so that they will only be satisfied with the highest beauty. They will not be satisfied with anything less than what is most good and most true and most beautiful, which is Jesus Christ Himself.

 

Caleb Douglas

Headmaster

The Augustine Academy

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Beyond Grades & Prizes https://amblesideschools.org/beyond-grades-prizes/ Fri, 07 Mar 2025 12:00:58 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=2385 Ambleside Schools International believes there is a more effective approach to the evaluation of students’ growth and knowledge than letter or number grades can achieve.

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Beyond Grades & Prizes
Exchanging Efficiency for Efficacy

There are certain ways of doing things in the world of education that are universally accepted. As those who have chosen less traditional ways of educating children, Ambleside practitioners and families are especially attuned to these widely-accepted norms.

 

The institution of the grading system is perhaps the most unchallenged of all educational norms, and its practice in almost every type of school environment spans nations and people groups. Its use is pervasive.

 

Ambleside Schools International believes there is a more effective approach to the evaluation of students’ growth and knowledge than letter or number grades can achieve. We have found the traditional grading system to be so inadequate that we have jettisoned its usage entirely.

 

In doing so, we open the door to a more complete evaluation of progress — one that is only possible inside an educational system designed around relationships rather than efficiency.

 

Remembering The Purpose of Education

 

Schools are fundamentally about growth and knowledge. Every educational institution is in the business of ensuring that students are engaging with the learning process and then trying to understand what students know following instruction.

 

Traditional grading systems are theoretically designed to:

  1. motivate students, and
  2. reflect the student’s understanding of a subject.

But the true test of any grading system is its efficacy in representing an individual’s actual learning and its ability to enhance their relationship with learning at all.

 

In following the trend of the Industrial Revolution, traditional schools employ a factory-based approach, as if children were products to be created at scale. The system has to be designed to be extremely efficient because it favors higher numbers of students in a classroom. Therefore, the system of evaluation has to be designed to be efficient first and foremost, which typically deprioritizes effectiveness and accuracy.

 

What is supposed to be efficient, though, in the end actually isn’t, because it does not provide enough information nor does it intrinsically motivate students to learn without the promise of reward.

 

The student is generally provided with a single score overall (say 73%) with very little context (perhaps a phrase or two, such as “works hard,” “incomplete work,” “poor participation in class,” etc). The child and parents need much more information than that to really understand how the child is engaging with the subject.

 

Ambleside provides it.

 

Redefining the Process of Evaluation

 

Ambleside uses a narrative approach to evaluate mastery of a given subject because it allows the teacher to describe the student’s relationship with the elements covered in that subject: what the student knows and what the student doesn’t know. Sometimes this will involve specific scores, but what is most important is the specifics of how the child interacted with the material, what they understood or did not understand, and what their relationship with the subject is like overall.

 

Constant evaluation is occurring in an Ambleside classroom. Teachers are trained toward it. Immediate feedback is paramount. Whiteboards, oral responses, written responses, and visual responses are all incorporated. In math, students are explaining the process rather than merely producing the correct answer.

 

Teachers are trained to know how much the child is engaging with the text and retaining information. The observations and conclusions of this process are then communicated in the student’s report of growth, which is one of the most important things a teacher does.

 

Motivating with Joy Instead of Fear

 

What we achieve by removing the external systems that reward knowledge through the earning of letters or numbers (prizes) is the most important purpose of all: fostering an intrinsic motivation to learn.

 

We are motivated creatures, and we act according to our motivations. Grades use fear to motivate. Charlotte Mason advocated for a process of evaluation that fosters joy in doing the work, figuring out a problem, overcoming a difficulty, learning all that we can know within the bounds of our God-given ability — and feeling satisfied with the effort.

 

The result is that we are growing students into functional adults who have natural curiosity, desire to work hard for the sake of doing work well, are able to motivate themselves internally to accomplish necessary work, and are not anxious or fearful about encountering new challenges.

 

What we draw them with, we draw them to.

 

Cheryl Ward, M.Ed.

Executive Director/Head of School

Calvary Schools of Holland

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