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Forming the whole child, not just the mind.

It’s a truly Christian model of education.

 

I think schools often focus on information as the outcome of what they’re trying to do. Test results. What makes a “living education” is that we focus on the work of formation. It’s not just passing the test. We’re trying to form the child for every aspect of their future life.

 

I often tell parents, “We care just as much about your child when they’re 25 and what they’re going to choose to do in their free time, as we do about what they’re going to choose to do for their occupation.” It’s all part of a flourishing life. It’s a way of living. And with the Charlotte Mason philosophy and Ambleside Method, you have a way of doing life that you learn through being a member school.

 

Students are learning a way to live that’s True and Good and Beautiful. So much of what we do is forming the whole child, not just the mind. We are forming their hearts and desires and training their affections.

 

I think you see the results of this over time. A lot of formation isn’t going to happen in two weeks. From my seat now as principal, I can think of one student who, when he entered the school, had a pretty poor relationship with learning … not really making eye contact with teachers. But through years of working with that student and trying to reform some of those habits, you’d see a completely different person today. He looked me in the eyes when I opened the door for him at the beginning of school. I was greeting a different student. He waited and turned back and made sure that he greeted me before walking in. You see the change in the long term.

 

One of my favorite stories is from when we took our high school students to DC this past spring. I could see very clearly a living education while we were there. When we went to the Holocaust Museum, we prepped our students to go in thinking of this personally. Know that God has something to share with you as you’re walking through this museum. You’re going to see lots of hard things. We actually encouraged them to not talk at all and just to go through on their own, quietly.

 

The hour and a half discussion we had with our students afterwards was pretty incredible. You can tell it wasn’t the normal high school student experience going through a museum. They were bringing up consistencies they had seen and fears they have of our current world. They considered the thoughts they have about the way they engage with something that is difficult. It was like talking to 30-year-olds. They have this maturity about them already at high school.

 

One of the thoughts that I remember them talking about was how difficult and how sad it would’ve been to be a child during that time in Germany. You have these camps that are promoting Nazism and Nazi ideas, and that’s just the norm. They were thinking how awful for the children of that country at that time and how much propaganda these children were being fed. But that’s all they knew for 10 to 20 years. Our students found that very saddening.

 

There was one point in the museum where they had listed all the names of people who helped people during the Holocaust. Lots of students were realizing they were Dutch and we’re from a Dutch community in West Michigan. They even saw names they knew or their own last name. The students took the time to notice things that other schools going through the museum were missing.

 

Charlotte Mason says in her writing that “life is sustained by ideas.” And I think what she means by a living education is that we’re piquing students’ interests in many different things, and we’re filling their mind with ideas. Similarly, in the same way the body needs food and digests food to function, our mind functions on ideas. Our way of education is presenting to students many good ideas that they can think about and ponder and talk about for the rest of their life.

 

I received my undergraduate and graduate degree from a Christian college, and I think highly of my experience there in many ways. But even there, my philosophy of education class presented me two main options: behaviorism or constructivism. Behaviorism at its core is manipulating behaviors through extrinsic rewards, using pain and pleasure to control behavior. Constructivism gives all choice to the child. They’re the ones finding their own knowledge and forming their own truth. I was mostly taught to choose one of those methods and was told to try to add Christianity to it. This seems to be the norm at most education programs across the United States.

 

Charlotte Mason created a philosophy and method that’s truly Christian. It’s not taking something that’s secular and trying to switch it or mold it. She came up with a base foundation of principles that allow you to teach in a Christian way and actually help you disciple students. This is what should draw teachers to Ambleside. It’s a truly Christian model of education.

 

Ben Sytsma

Principal | Calvary Schools of Holland, an Ambleside Member School

Ambleside Magazine

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Equipping Students to Grapple with Tough Questions https://amblesideschools.org/equipping-students-to-grapple-with-tough-questions/ Fri, 05 Jan 2024 20:23:15 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1906 In considering their children’s education, parents often ask themselves “what kind of person do I want my child to be like when he or she turns 18?”

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In considering their children’s education, parents often ask themselves “what kind of person do I want my child to be like when he or she turns 18?”

 

At Ambleside, we recognize that education is something much more than building a resume, gaining job skills, or becoming a “productive member of society,” however desirable these might be. Rather, the gift we give every child is that they might become the man or woman our Father in heaven intends.

 

I was privileged to witness firsthand what that looks like at a picnic at the Iwo Jima Memorial in Arlington, Virginia. That, by the way, is my favorite spot in the Washington DC area; from it, you can see the Monuments, the Capitol, Georgetown, and the National Cathedral, while lounging in the cool grass.

 

In a previous career, I served on Capitol Hill. One of the staples of Washington tourist life, often coinciding with the blooming of the Cherry Blossoms, is student tours to our nation’s capital. Every Congressional office hosted groups, showed them the Capitol building, explained how a bill becomes law, and answered questions from these leaders of the future.

 

Needless to say, the students did not always pay close attention. Some were simply uninterested. Many were glued to their phones. Others were cynical in their questions.

 

But the Ambleside Member School whose picnic I attended that day, Calvary Schools of Holland (Michigan), was completely different. After a nice meal – and an improvised, student-led game of capture the flag in which everyone willingly participated – the teachers gathered the students in a large circle to discuss their impressions of the Holocaust Museum they had toured that morning.

 

Each student shared his or her thoughts – not out of compulsion or begrudgingly but wrestling with the deepest questions of our time! We all recoiled when considering how the most advanced and sophisticated society of the time – the country that gave us Goethe and Schiller and Beethoven and Bach – could give itself over to the throes of mass hysteria and nihilism and seek to exterminate an entire race of people, not to mention the fact that that race is God’s chosen people?

 

These students seemed to grasp the enormity of that exercise. They were polite, respectful, articulate, sad … they shared ideas, emotions, feelings, theories.

 

One of the hallmarks of the Ambleside Method of education is the use of narration, whereby the student reads a text once and then “tells back” what he or she has read. The same applies to the observance of works of art and of nature; students are able to pull so much detail from a highly developed habit of attention through this method.

 

That, too, was readily apparent from the discussion. The Museum contained a number of works of art illustrating the devastation of the Holocaust. The careful observation by these students, conveyed respectfully and thoughtfully, with plenty of time to ponder, yielded a treasure trove of insights.

 

It was as if I was witnessing a graduate level seminar in moral philosophy, ethics, and logic; not in a self-absorbed, pretentious, or cynical way, but rather with open minds, seeking the leading of the Holy Spirit.

 

Most school groups skip the Holocaust Museum and instead opt for something a little lighter and more interactive, like the Spy Museum. Nothing wrong with that outlet, mind you, but the willingness to grapple with the most difficult questions of our time, under the leading of the Holy Spirit, is a touchstone of our model.

 

If fact, I would humbly posit that any Christian parent who saw what I did would send their children to an Ambleside school!

 

Ambleside is based on the philosophy of Charlotte Mason, a British educator who believed that education involves three primary aims:

 

1.      Cultivating the Knowledge of God

 

Of the three sorts of knowledge proper to a child, the knowledge of God, of man, and of the universe, — the knowledge of God ranks first in importance, is indispensable, and most happy-making.1

 

Let them grow up, too, with the shout of a King in their midst. There are, in this poor stuff we call human nature, founts of loyalty, worship, passionate devotion, glad service, which have, alas! to be unsealed in the earth-laden older heart, but only ask place to flow from the child’s. There is no safeguard and no joy like that of being under orders, being possessed, controlled, continually in the service of One whom it is gladness to obey.2

 

2.     Transforming Disposition to Character

 

The child brings with him into the world, not character, but disposition. He has tendencies which may need only to be strengthened, or, again, to be diverted or even repressed. His character — the efflorescence of the man wherein the fruit of his life is a-preparing — is original disposition, modified, directed, expanded by education; by circumstances; later, by self-control and self-culture; above all, by the supreme agency of the Holy Ghost, even where that agency is little suspected, and as little solicited.3

 

3.     Establishing Many Relations

 

We consider that education is the science of relations, or, more fully, that education considers what relations are proper to a human being, and in what ways these several relations can best be established; that a human being comes into the world with capacity for many relations; and that we, for our part, have two chief concerns––first, to put him in the way of forming these relations by presenting the right idea at the right time, and by forming the right habit upon the right idea; and, secondly, by not getting in the way and so preventing the establishment of the very relations we seek to form.4

 

They [children] come into the world with many relations waiting to be established; relations with places far and near, with the wide universe, with the past of history, with the social economics of the present, with the earth they live on and all its delightful progeny of beast and bird, plant and tree; with the sweet human affinities they entered into at birth; with their own country and other countries, and, above all, with that most sublime of human relationships––their relation to God.5

 

I started this piece by asking what we, parents, want for our children. In a way, though, we are also asking what we want for ourselves. Because, in the end, don’t we all want to be able to pay closer attention to the working of the Holy Spirit, to be able to hear and discern the Holy Spirit’s teaching, wisdom, and guidance in each part of our own lives as we seek to make sense of this life? Come, Holy Spirit, come.

 

Dean Peterson
Executive Director

1 Charlotte Mason, Philosophy of Education (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989), 158.
2 Charlotte Mason, Parents and Children (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989), 57.
3 Ibid., 23.
4 Charlotte Mason, School Education (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989), 65-66.
5 Charlotte Mason, Philosophy of Education (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989), 72-73.

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Video Series Part 16. Chapter Thirteen: Establish a Strategy https://amblesideschools.org/video-series-part-16-chapter-thirteen-establish-a-strategy/ Fri, 15 Dec 2023 16:18:21 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1853 After inspiring a child with an idea and building an alliance, then, establish a strategy for forming a new habit. Ask the child, “How can I help you?” Often they themselves will offer a great strategy.

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Video Series Part 16. Chapter Thirteen: Establish a Strategy

“Godfrey was not likely to be very penetrating in his judgments, but he had a sense that his father’s indulgence had not been kindness, and had had a vague longing for some discipline that would have checked his own errant weakness and helped his better will.” ~ Silas Marner

 

After inspiring a child with an idea and building an alliance, then, establish a strategy for forming a new habit. Ask the child, “How can I help you?” Often they themselves will offer a great strategy. The adult’s job is to inform the student’s ignorance and support the student in overcoming their weakness. Discipline is not control; it is formation, cultivation, and helping a child grow up to form healthy relationships. Ambleside teachers prayerfully identify two areas for each child’s growth, and then act with tact, watchfulness, and persistence to form new habits.

 

In Part 16 of our video and discussion guides, Bill St. Cyr explains the need to establish a strategy in the formation of good habits. This is accomplished with a growth focus — the formation of new habits formed out of the right kind of heart, the right kind of intrinsic motivations which must be cultivated relationally. Always casting a vision of what it could be and reinforcing the notion that there’s a different and better way to do things. When we hang in there with the child and remain the troubadour of a virtuous life, day in and day out with tact, watchfulness and persistence, then we find in the child those rails of habit laid down which will lead them to easily and smoothly have the kind of relationships with God, self, others, work, and the whole created universe that we long for our children to have.

Tact, Watchfulness, and Persistence. For example, and to choose a habit of no great consequence except as a matter of consideration for others: the mother wishes her child to acquire the habit of shutting the door after him when he enters or leaves a room. Tact, watchfulness, and persistence are the qualities she must cultivate in herself; and, with these, she will be astonished at the readiness with which the child picks up the new habit.

 

Stages in the Formation of a Habit.

Johnny,’ she says, in a bright, friendly voice, ‘I want you to remember something with all your might: never go into or out of a room in which anybody is sitting without shutting the door.’
‘But if I forget, mother?’
‘I will try to remind you.’
‘But perhaps I shall be in a great hurry.’
‘You must always make time to do that.’
‘But why, mother?’
‘Because it is not polite to the people in the room to make them uncomfortable.’
‘But if I am going out again that very minute?’
‘Still, shut the door, when you come in; you can open it again to go out. Do you think you can remember?’
‘I’ll try, mother.’

‘Very well; I shall watch to see how few “forgets” you make.’

 

For two or three times Johnny remembers; and then, he is off like a shot and half-way downstairs before his mother has time to call him back. She does not cry out, ‘Johnny, come back and shut the door!’ because she knows that a summons of that kind is exasperating to big or little. She goes to the door, and calls pleasantly, ‘Johnny!’ Johnny has forgotten all about the door; he wonders what his mother wants, and, stirred by curiosity, comes back, to find her seated and employed as before. She looks up, glances at the door, and says, ‘I said I should try to remind you.’ ‘Oh, I forgot,’ says Johnny, put upon his honour; and he shuts the door that time, and the next, and the next.

 

But the little fellow has really not much power to recollect, and the mother will have to adopt various little devices to remind him; but of two things she will be careful––that he never slips off without shutting the door, and that she never lets the matter be a cause of friction between herself and the child, taking the line of his friendly ally to help him against that bad memory of his. By and by, after, say, twenty shuttings of the door with never an omission, the habit begins to be formed; Johnny shuts the door as a matter of course, and his mother watches him with delight come into a room, shut the door, take something off the table, and go out, again shutting the door.

 

The Dangerous Stage.

Now that Johnny always shuts the door, his mother’s joy and triumph begin to be mixed with unreasonable pity. ‘Poor child,’ she says to herself, ‘it is very good of him to take so much pains about a little thing, just because he is bid!’ She thinks that, all the time, the child is making an effort for her sake; losing sight of the fact that the habit has become easy and natural, that, in fact, Johnny shuts the door without knowing that he does so. Now comes the critical moment. Someday Johnny is so taken up with a new delight that the habit, not yet fully formed, loses its hold, and he is half-way downstairs before he thinks of the door. Then he does think of it, with a little prick of conscience, strong enough, not to send him back, but to make him pause a moment to see if his mother will call him back. She has noticed the omission, and is saying to herself, ‘Poor little fellow, he has been very good about it this long time; I’ll let him off this once.’ He, outside, fails to hear his mother’s call, says, to himself––fatal sentence!––’Oh, it doesn’t matter,’ and trots off.

 

Next time he leaves the door open, but it is not a ‘forget.’ His mother calls him back in a rather feeble way. His quick ear catches the weakness of her tone, and, without coming back, he cries, ‘Oh, mother, I’m in such a hurry,’ and she says no more, but lets him off. Again, he rushes in, leaving the door wide open. ‘Johnny!’––in a warning voice. ‘I’m going out again just in a minute, mother,’ and after ten minutes’ rummaging he does go out and forgets to shut the door. The mother’s mis-timed easiness has lost for her every foot of the ground she had gained.1

 

Questions and Thoughts to Consider:

 

  1. Describe what it is to be tactful, watchful, and persistent. Describe what it isn’t.
  2. Explain the stages in the formation of a habit.
  3. What are your areas of strength and weakness in helping a child form good habits? How can you grow?
  4. What does it mean to be a ‘troubadour of the virtuous life’ for a child. Why is this important?

1 Charlotte Mason, Home Education, 122-124.

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