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Watchwords — Habit

By Education is a discipline, is meant the discipline of habits formed definitely and thoughtfully, whether habits of mind or body. 1

—  Maryellen St. Cyr —

Habits! We all have them. Are the habits we’re forming life-giving or life-stealing?

 

Because habit is inevitable, if we are not forming life-giving habits, we will form life-stealing habits. Our children and students reveal to each of us of the kinds of habits, physical, intellectual, and moral which both they and we need to form or reform. This is our starting place.

 

Thomas awakes, runs down the stairs ready for the day, greeting dad, mom, and baby brother. “Good Morning, Good Morning!” Lily lags behind, mopes down the stairs, and asks, “Are we having oatmeal? I hate oatmeal.”

 

Some parents dismiss the difference; Thomas is a morning person and Lily obviously is not! Are we willing to leave Lily to her nature? The truth is Thomas and Lily have formed different habits. Thomas’ habit may be natural or may be the result of formation, his parents having instructed him to greet persons when he comes into a  room. He followed their imperative. Whereas Lily has been lax (and so have her parents) dismissing the imperative, not forming the positive habit, but instead a contrary habit.

 

With mom and dad’s support, Lily can form the positive habit easily enough. “Lily, try coming downstairs again, the right way?” If need be, dad or mom might run up to Lily, tickling or kissing her (to distract her from herself), and state, “Try that again.”

 

Questions to Consider

  • Why do we so easily dismiss the work of forming habits in the lives of our children/students to personality, birth order, gender, etc.?
  • Consider the Four-Part Process 2 of Habit Formation:
  • A Positive Relational Alliance ~ Sowing an Idea ~ Proactive Support ~ Natural Consequences

1 Mason, Charlotte. Home Education. Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989. (Preface).
2 St. Cyr, William, Ambleside Schools International Internship Manual. Leesburg, VA. Ambleside Schools, 2010. 25-30.

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Watchwords – Read Aloud https://amblesideschools.org/watchwords-read-aloud/ https://amblesideschools.org/watchwords-read-aloud/#respond Thu, 08 Sep 2022 10:00:57 +0000 https://amblesideschools.org/?p=1147 Charlotte Mason speaks of the family read aloud as a habit, 1-2 evenings each week for an hour. There are few stronger family bonds than this habit of devoting an occasional hour to reading aloud.

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There are few stronger family bonds than this habit of devoting an occasional hour to reading aloud.  1

—  MARYELLEN ST.CYR —

Charlotte Mason speaks of the family read aloud as a habit, 1-2 evenings each week for an hour. “In the first place, to get information is not the object of the family reading, but to make the young people acquainted with the flavor of, to give them a taste for a real “book“––that is, roughly speaking, a work of so much literary merit, that it should be read and valued for the sake of that alone, whatever its subject-matter.”

 

This rule makes a clean sweep of the literature to be found in nine houses out of ten––twaddling storybooks, funny or “good”; worthless novels; second-rate writing, whether in works of history or of general literature; compendiums, abstracts, short sketches of great lives, useful information in whatever form. None of these should be admitted … and, indeed, the less they are read at all, the better.

 

Mason contends for the real; real books impress upon the reader embodied ideas through interesting characters and human relations, well-chosen language, literary in nature, and themes central to life, embedded in story. This shared time of reading aloud and active listening provides a formative time for each family member, often revelational, as the text stimulates thought and discussion.

 

The practice is pleasant at the time, and pleasant in the retrospect, it gives occasion for much bright talk, merry and wise, and quickens family affection by means of intellectual sympathy. Indeed, the wonder is that any family should neglect such a simple means of pure enjoyment, and of moral, as well as intellectual culture. But this, of reading aloud, is not a practice to be taken up and laid down at pleasure. Let the habit drop, and it is difficult to take it up again, because everyone has in the meantime struck a vein of intellectual entertainment for himself––trashy stuff, it may be,––which makes him an unwilling listener to the family “book.”

 

 

Questions to Consider

  • How can our family create a family read aloud with opportunities “for bright talk, merry and wise, and family affection by means of intellectual sympathy?
  • What hinders us?

1 Charlotte, Mason, Formation of Character, (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1989), 220

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